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PRATAP BHOGILAL - JOURNEY THROUGH LIFE
kirat karo (work sincerely/selflessly), vand chhako (wealth is to be shared/ held in trust), which had been monotonously drilled by our elders into our conscious in childhood.
On commitment to oneself: When I was diagnosed for cancer of the stomach and had to undergo chemotherapy, my doctors had laid down certain guidelines for food and medication. I also had complications in my teeth and some chest problems, mainly due to personal neglect over the years, and my physician categorically warned that I could no longer afford to ignore them after. the weakening effects of chemotherapy. So there was a lot to follow by way of medication, diet etc.
I had observed over the years PB being uncompromisingly meticulous about the smallest of his health requirements. It helped me weave the medical advice into a regimented routine and commit myself to it permanently. This helped me in the treatment and I could sustain my strength and continue with my regular work life.
On service to one's parents: Another trivial incident that left an indelible mark on me was PB's unusual - and what then seemed inexplicable - commitment to serving his father.
I remember, Bapaji had walked into PB's Ridge Road residence on a hot summer afternoon just as some of us were standing at the door, about to leave. He was feeling the heat and sat down on a chair at the entrance and asked for water. I think, it was Chitra or maybe Dharini, who said, "I'll get it” PB instantly said, “No, I'll get it in that familiar tone of his that brooks no argument. He immediately went and brought a glass of water and handed it to his father.
I appreciated the significance of the lesson in that incident registered in my sub-conscious, many years later, when my father occasionally indicated, in subtle ways, that he was more comfortable depending on me for his minor personal needs!
All looks yellow to the jaundiced eye - Alexander Pope
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