Perfecting Youth

Author(s): Udayvallabhvijay
Publisher: Samkit Yuvak Mandal

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QUERY ANALYZER
Q) Should we always go according to our parents wish and advice?
A) Parents, as a rare personality are full of emotions and experience. No one can compete with their best wishing ability for us. That's for sure. They are never a hurdle in your life. Actually, they are the purpose of it. At times there may be difference of opinion where we think of being right & sometimes, they are wrong. Is it always right to be right? The upcoming generation is filled with intellect and talent but experience is a rare quality which can never be gained overnight. Experience is like a beard, you have to wait for years to get it.
So, if not always, almost it is right to say: Follow your parents, not because they are always right, but they have the highest experience of being wrong also. Hence, its advisable for us to be benefited, where they were not. No one has enough time to commit every mistake and learn from it. So it may be better if we learn a lot from some other's mistakes too.
Sometimes, due to unawareness of the current scenario, parents may not come to a proper conclusion. At such times there is always a space for soft discussion. A soft denial is welcomed instead of a harsh acceptance.
Q) What if it is not possible to give enough time to your family due to business constraints ? Should growth be dumped then ?
A) A corporate company, where your decade old occupation has paid you a lot and even the company has got a leap due to your extraordinary efforts. Suppose something happens to you, making you unavailable for the company for all times, then what shall the company do?
Nothing, but finding replacement at the earliest. Now, if the same scenario
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