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next morning she would have shoved the teacup at you in anger. Her sulking would continue for the next three days.
Adjustment during Mealtime Ideal daily life interaction means to adjust everywhere. This precious time is for your spiritual development. Do not create differences. I give you these words: “Adjust Everywhere!" If the soup is too salty, you should remember what Dada has said about adjusting. Eat a little of it. You can even ask for some pickle if you want, but do not quarrel. There should be no conflicts in the home. Adjustments will bring harmony during difficult situations in life.
If You Dislike It, Accept It Anyway
Adjust with the very person who misadjusts with you. If there are maladjustments in the daily life between a woman and her daughter-in-law, or vice versa, the one who wants to escape from the vicious cycle of the worldly life should adjust. Even between husband and wife, when one keeps ripping things up, the other must mend. This is the only way a relationship can be sustained with peace. There is no need to insist on your viewpoint in this relative world. A human should be adjustable everywhere.
To Improve Her or to Adjust to Her? How beautiful life will be if you adjust to the other person in every situation. After all, what do we take with us when we die? “I will set her straight,” he says. If you attempt to make her straight, you yourself will become crooked. Do not try to improve your wife. Just accept her as she is. It would be a different matter if you had a permanent relationship with her life after life. Who knows where she will be in her next life? You will
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| SR No. | 030137 |
| Book Title | Science For Self Realization |
| Original Sutra Author | N/A |
| Author | Dada Bhagwan |
| Publisher | Dada Bhagwan Aradhana Trust |
| Publication Year | 2013 |
| Total Pages | 78 |
| Language | English |
| Classification | Book_English |
| File Size | 1 MB |