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Dadashri: Yes, but one will not stop until one has his or her way; that is a tragu. I had witnessed such tragu several times but I paid my respect from afar, 'Hey! Tragu may I never see you and the doer of the tragu, let me not me see your face ever.' Tragu is learnt behavior. One will even find a guru to teach him. Tragu is not something one can learn on one's own.
Questioner: So if a person insists on doing things his way, is that called tragu?
Dadashri: Insistence is not tragu but to scare others into doing what one wants, that is tragu. Don't some people scare others by saying, ...or else I will commit suicide' or 'I'll do this' or 'I'll do that'?
Questioner: They threaten, they charm, they incite pity or punishment; they do whatever it takes.
Dadashri: Yes, they resort to every trick. And what do the poor straight people do? They will say, 'Let him have his way, whatever may become of us, so be it. The poor wife will even give up her all her jewelry.
Questioner: The one who does the tragu, does so with an understanding, does he not?
Dadashri: He understands everything. Tragu means to willfully and knowingly manipulate for one's own agenda.