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Questioner: Now nothing would happen. Initially I would be affected but then it would be fine. Then I would understand that it is vyavasthit and that it has to do with past karmic ties roonanubandha.
Dadashri: How shrewd you are! What a tremendous calculation to clear out your karmic account. And you will not become suspicious will you?
Questioner: No Dada.
Dadashri: And these people start getting suspicious even when the wife comes home late. Suspicion is not worth getting into. Nothing is going to happen outside your karmic account. If your wife comes home late, explain things to her and reason with her but do not become suspicious. Suspicion actually feeds the problem. Yes, you have to caution her, but not be suspicious. Those who become suspicious miss moksha.
So if you want liberation, if you want to go to moksha, do not become suspicious. Just because you see your wife with another man's arm around her, does that mean you have to drink poison?
Questioner: No, why should I do that?
Dadashri: Then what should you do?
Questioner: Act up a little in a dramatic manner. Later, make her understand. If she still continues to do it, then it is vyavasthit.
Dadashri: Yes, that is right. Now you will not have any suspicions on your wife or anyone else in your home, will you? These are all 'files' and there is nothing to become suspicious about; is anything worth being suspicious about? Whatever is the karmic account, whatever the karmic connection, the files' will wander accordingly and your goal is to go to moksha.
That is a dangerous disease
When doubt vahem enters in these matters, will it give you a lot of happiness, would it not?