Aptavani 09

SR No.: 007513
Original Sutra Author: N/A
Author: Gnani Purush Dadashri
Publisher: Gnani Purush Dadashri
Publication Year: 2007
Total Pages: 515
Language: English
Classification: Book_English & Akram Vigyan
File Size: 8 MB

Page 126

Dadashri: So a place everyone goes to is called a toilet. A place where many people frequent is called a toilet. A relationship of fidelity to one man and fidelity to one woman is a conduct of virtue. Until then the conduct of the woman is considered virtuous otherwise it is considered at toilet. How many people use the toilet in your home?
Questioner: Everyone.
Dadashri: It is not used by just one person is it? So whether two people use it or everyone else does, then it is a toilet.
People will dine when they come across a hotel. Hey! They may even wine and dine! So get rid of any suspicion. With suspicion, you will lose the moksha that is in the palm of your hands. Therefore, you have to understand just this much that you are married and that she is your tenant! That is all you have to keep in your mind. Then whomever she goes out with, you should not harbor any suspicion. Your concern is with your need only, is it not? When you need to use the toilet, go use it. That which cannot be refrained from visiting is called a toilet. That is why the Gnanis have said that the worldly life is a betrayal.
Questioner: Why does it not appear as a betrayal?
Dadashri: Because of illusionary attachment moha. And there has never been anyone to tell you so either. The train will stop only when someone waves a red flag, otherwise it will continue and become derailed.
Solution for situations of extreme suspicion
This world exists because of suspicions. The very tree that needs to dry out is the very tree people 'water' with suspicions and therefore it thrives. even more. Therefore, it is not worth being suspicious in this world.
Do you now get suspicious about anything in this world? How would you feel if you see your wife, from a distance, sitting on a bench with some other man?