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And we had neither any reply to this, nor forceful pursuation, but our "search for a proper & worthy Match for her, naturally went on.
Out of several examples and incidents of our Family Life, a few are worth-mentioning which speak of Parul's Consideration and devotion for us as well as quickly-grasping, judging, situation -understanding, obeying and ALL-INFLUENCING abilities.
On one hand, She was so much flower-like-delicate, parentsdevoted and silently influential that when a harsh-words-uttering relative lady-our Sister-in-law here at Bangalore-came to us and we all replied to her with our SILENCE and PEACEFUL PATIENCE, Parul replied this lifelong-services-forgetting Madam with her
FORCEFUL TEARS I" These influencing Tears worked like Magic, more than words and the lady had to go back without achieving anything 11
On the other hand, when other relatives, our Ahmedabad inlaws, tried to sidetrack and separate Parul from us, for reasons unknown to us, and when as rightly guided by the Graceful Holy Mother of Hampi and as led by her own wisdom, quick-judging & Understanding ability, She demonstrated unusually amazing qualities of sympathy, respectfulness, modesty and obedience to us. Not only she ever thought to go against our wishes, feelings, principles, but also remained capable to discriminately judge the intention of others and to understand what was in her and everybody's right interest. She at once refused and humbly rejected, to above relatives and gave up their plea. Here, her quick, analytic, fearless decision and loyal, intelligent Parental devotion silenced these sweet wellwishers.
Having no born brothers, Parul and her other sisters had treated our loving cousin brother's affectionate sons Mukesh and Kamlesh, no less but more than our real elder brothers' sons Prafull,
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