Science For Self Realization

SR No.: 030137
Original Sutra Author: N/A
Author: Dada Bhagwan
Publisher: Dada Bhagwan Aradhana Trust
Publication Year: 2013
Total Pages: 78
Language: English
Classification: Book_English
File Size: 1 MB

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Dadashri: If you fight with this wall, how long can you keep fighting? If you hurt your head from walking into the wall, do you start yelling and punching at it? In the same token, consider your antagonist a wall. Then is there a need to lay blame on him? We ourselves have to understand that the other person is like a wall. By doing this, you will avoid all problems.
If the wall had any power, you would too. Is it capable of confronting you? The same applies to everyone else too. Whatever the account your wife has come with, she will not leave you without settling it. She is simply an instrument to settle your account. You cannot escape this. What is the point of shouting and complaining when she has no control over her speech? Therefore, become like a wall yourself. If you continue to be verbally abusive to your wife, the God within her will take note of it. On the other hand, if you become like a wall when she abuses you, the God within you will help you.
There is no difference between colliding with a wall and getting into an argument with someone over differences of opinion. It is essentially the same thing. Both are blind. A person bumps into a wall because he cannot see what lies ahead of him, and a person gets into conflict because he cannot find a solution and so he gets into disagreement. We should understand that these anger, pride, deceit, and greed arise because of one's inability to see what lies ahead. It is no fault of the wall, but of the person who is hurt by it. All these are only walls. All situations are like the wall. When you clash with a wall you do not go to look for who is at fault. There is no need to prove who is right and who is wrong.
Conflict Is a Sign of Ignorance
What causes conflict? Ignorance! If you have conflict
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