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Do Not Accuse, Adjust At home one must know how to adjust. If you come home late from satsang, what will the wife say? “You should keep an eye on the time.” What is wrong with going home a little early? Why does a husband suffer in this manner? This is the result of his karmic account of his past life. In his previous life he had accused others a lot. At that time he was in power. Now you are powerless, so adjust without any complaints. So in this life, do “plus-minus” (Dadashri's terminology to settle past accounts). It is better not to accuse anyone at all. If you become an accuser, you will be accused. We do not want any part of this. If someone insults you, accept it. Credit it to your account. How do you feel about this? Is it good to be an accuser? Why not adjust from the beginning?
If a husband and a wife both make a firm commitment to adjust, they will find a solution. If one is insistent, the other has to adjust by giving in. If you do not adjust you can become insane. Repeated harassment of others is the reason for this insanity.
The one who has learned the art of adjustment has found the path of eternal bliss. Adjustment taken in daily life situation is Gnan. This will be one's triumph.
Some people are in the habit of sleeping late, and some go to bed early. How can they get along? What would happen if they all live together under one roof as a family? Someone in the home may say, “You are an idiot.” At such a time you should learn only that this person just uses such language. This is how you adjust. If you return his insult, you will exhaust
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| SR No. | 030137 |
| Book Title | Science For Self Realization |
| Original Sutra Author | N/A |
| Author | Dada Bhagwan |
| Publisher | Dada Bhagwan Aradhana Trust |
| Publication Year | 2013 |
| Total Pages | 78 |
| Language | English |
| Classification | Book_English |
| File Size | 1 MB |