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correct viewpoint. To find the right approach, we need to be polite and receptive enough to listen to the ideas and viewpoints from people with different cultures and backgrounds. Sometimes we will discover that we were way off in our approach! Being polite does not mean a total agreement with the view points of the opponent. It only means listening to the other party consciously. Listening with a spirit of reconciliation cannot co-exist with arrogance! This is one of the main messages of ANEKANTWAD-another cardinal principle of Jainism.
Recognize the equality of souls - We need to respect all life and all human beings. Jainism clearly says: All souls are equal. This means that any temporary perception of superiority should not blind us and make us arrogant.
Humility produces positive results - We need to understand that humility generates respect, co-operation and pleasant vibrations while dealing with our fellow human beings. Arrogance on the other hand invites contempt, dislike and hate. Our choice should be obvious.
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Arrogance obstructs and humility fosters resolution of conflicts. More problems have existed throughout history because of ego clashes. If we show humility to others in resolving a conflict, even our opponents will calm down and show a way to get out of it. On the other hand, if we are perceived as arrogant, our opponents will play hard ball and devise ways to teach us a lesson, thereby lowering the chances of resolution.
Deception
The human mind has an uncanny ability to craft devious means and cheat others to satisfy one's low level desires to procure more money, power, prestige or many other worldly objects. Greed and perverse knowledge (wrong beliefs) are the primary drivers of this emotion. They make the person resort to lies, stealing, fraud, dishonesty and hypocrisy.
The person with deceit does not hesitate to employ any unethical and immoral means to achieve the end objectives. He thinks one way, speaks something else and acts altogether differently-showing a lack of harmony between his thoughts, speech and action. The history of mankind contains many stories showing that deception does not work in the long run. Eventually the dishonest person gets caught and suffers from the social, monetary and mental consequences. Deception in general ends up in an ugly manner. It is just a matter of time.
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