________________ once we start liking God, Guru and religion. To please God or Guru, one must detach from the world. Once when one tastes and relishes a rich sweet dish(rosogulla) he does not bother about the sweet drink made of jaggery(gudraab)... one who desires the gudrab, knows not the sweetness of rosogulla... he knows not what he has missed. It is a process wherein, on one hand you move towards Parmatma and on the other, you drift away from the worldly affairs. One who keeps bothering about the world can never please his God or Guru. One who listens to the world can never listen to the valuable golden words of Parmatma. Once a person listens to Parmatma's preaching, he loses the desire to listen to any worldly talks. As long as you are afraid of, 'What others will say? What others will think? What if people say something?' Till then understand that you have not even climbed the first step of religion. Chaah gayee chinta miti.....Manva beparwah! "The mind will become free only when there are neither any attachments nor worries." When an individual rises above the longing for the world and becomes indifferent to the world, only then can he be the beloved of Parmatma. -- 46 --