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Dadashri: You don't have to do anything! The adjustments will be taken on their own. You just have to keep observing, 'Oh ho! Chandulal has suspicion.' When suspicion arises, he is always in serious torment santaap. He is in tremendous misery. The Lord has said that suspicion is the biggest mistake that gives instant misery. It will give misery to other. Before doing that however, it will create tremendous misery in the owner. By creating an opposing force (pratibhav) the pain of suspicion will increase.
Questioner: So do we have to remain separate with awareness at the time of suspicion?
Dadashri: You have to remain separate at that time but also you have to remain separate all other times too. Try to remain separate for one day; try to do it one day out of the week. Then you will realize that there is nothing to it if you have to do it the next day. You will not fall.
is not with the falling, it is with the
Questioner: The problem entanglements it creates.
Dadashri: The entanglement is due to your prior practices and habits and that is why it does not go away. It does not leave. But there is no need for suspicion now.
Questioner: Does suspicion get destroyed when I remain separate?
Dadashri: Yes, suspicion dissipates on its own.
Questioner: So from now on all that is needed is to maintain this awakened awareness (jagruti after Gnan.
Dadashri: The seer jonaar is always aware. If there is a seer then one is jagrut awake. One is knower-seer gnata-drashta only when one is aware or awake. Otherwise, the suffering is proportional to the lack of awareness ajagruti.
Opposing suspicion of the other person
Questioner: If someone is suspicious about me, how can I solve the problem?