Parda Ghunghat Ek Vivechan

Author(s): Babulal Mali
Publisher: Z_Ashtdashi_012049.pdf
Catalog link: https://jainqq.org/explore/211321/1

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bAbUlAla mAlI 'viSapAyI' bhUmikA ko gauNa kara use ghara kI jimmedArI aura vaMza vikAsa kI jimmedArI se lAda diyaa| sanAtana dharma meM strI ke saMpUrNa jIvana para paharA lagA diyaa| bAlya-avasthA meM mAtA-pitA kI dekha-rekha, zAdI hone para pati kI dekha-rekha, vidhavA hone para putra kI dekharekha yA sAsa-sasura kI dekha-rekha meM zaraNa dI gii| usameM jevaroM kI bhUkha jagAI gii| kAna aura nAka phor3a kara gahane pahanAye gye| usake hAtha, pA~va aura kamara bhI bA~dha diye gye| usako kama umra meM hI zAdI ke baMdhana meM bA~dhA gyaa| vaha godAna kI taraha daheja, dAna kI vastu banA dI gii| islAma meM bhI kamoveza yahI sthiti hai| vahA~ to talAka-talAka-talAka bolane mAtra se strI besahArA ho jAtI hai| vahA~ to hinduoM ke bajAya pardA aura bhI sakhta hai| islAma meM aurata ko itane sakhta parde meM kyoM rakhA gayA? islAma dharma kA udaya registAna meM huaa| Aja bhale hI araba mulkoM meM camacamAtI sar3akeM, phAIva sTAra hoTaleM, sTeDiyama, earakaMDIzana bilDiMga haiM parantu sirpha 100 varSa taka ve bahuoM kI taraha rahate the| registAna meM jaba reta ke aMdhar3a calA karate the| usa ur3atI huI bAlUreta se zarIra ko bacAne ke lie labAdA pahananA jarurI thA evaM araba mulkoM ke nivAsiyoM (aurata marda) donoM ne labAde pahane jo paraMparA Aja bhI cala rahI hai| rASTrapati pada kI bhAvI ummIdavAra zrImatI pratibhA pATila ne sAmAjika aura manovaijJAnika dRSTi se dekheM to puruSa ne parde ke saMbaMdha meM kyA bola diyA jaise barra ke chatte meM hAtha DAla apane zArIrika bala kI zreSThatA ke AdhAra para strI ko apanI diyA ho| rAjapUtoM kI rAnI-mahArAniyA~ sakhta parde meM rahatI thiiN| amUlya saMpatti, dhana mAna liyaa| usakI hiphAjata karanA apanA unake isa parde meM rahane kA kAraNa unhoMne eka jAti vizeSa kA dAyitva mAna liyA aura eka AtmA va zarIra kI bajAya saMpatti nAma liyaa| mujhe lagA ve koI buddhijIvI mahilA nahIM haiN| ve ho gii| usake dila, dimAga, bhAvanA aura vicAra para puruSa ne adhakacarI rAjanItijJa haiN| rAjanetAoM kI taraha bayAna thA, kabjA jamA liyaa| yaha kabjA adhikAra, aMkuza koI sau pA~ca ataeva svAbhAvika thA ki isa bayAna para Aropa pratyAropa lagane sau sAla kA nahIM hokara hajAroM sAla kA hai| aurata ke dimAga hI the aura lage bhI haiN| prathame grAkSe mkssikaapaat....| se hI yaha nikala gayA yA nikAla diyA gayA ki usakI koI pardA prathA ThIka-ThIka kaba prArambha huI, yaha zodha kA viSaya svataMtra asmitA/hastI hai| vaha to puruSa icchAoM kI mAtra hai| parantu mAnava kA Adi avasthA meM jaba vaha guphAoM meM rahatA kaThapatalI hai| jisane bhI tanika virodha kiyA to usako aura kaccA mA~sa khAtA thA, phala phUla khAtA thA, taba kapar3e kA lA~chita/pratAr3ita karake AtmahatyA ke lie majabUra kiyA gyaa| AviSkAra nahIM huaa| Adama aura havvA kI taraha svataMtra vicarate ataeva jaba vaha eka pU~jI/dhana/manI ke rUpa meM pUrNata: parivartita the| dhIre-dhIre vikAsa huaa| manuSya kabIloM meM rahane lgaa| ho gayI to usakI hiphAjata/surakSA bhI jarUrI ho gii| sabase itihAsa ke anusAra pUrva meM 'mAtRsattAtmaka' (meTaranala) rAjya thA pahale use ghara meM hI kaida kiyA gayA phira usa para Dresa koDa lAgU jisameM strI kA nirNaya pramukha hotA thaa| strI hI sArI vyavasthA kiye gaye tAki usa saMpatti ko koI curA na le, lUTa na le| saMbhAlatI thI phira sthiti meM parivartana huA aura tamAma zakti usakA ceharA bhI DhakA gayA aura ise strI kI lajjA/zAlInatA/ strI se puruSa ne le lI, jise 'pitR sattAtmaka' yuga kahA jAtA sabhyatA se jor3A gyaa| hai, jo Aja bhI cala hI rahA hai| jaba khaibara aura bolana ke daroM se lUTere Ane lage taba pUre pitR sattAtmaka yuga meM strI puruSa kI gulAma ho gyii| jaba deza meM zAsaka rAjapUta hI the| lUTeroM kA uddezya isa sone kI dharmoM kA udaya va vikAsa huA unhoMne samAja racanA meM strI kI ciDiyA ko laTanA thaa| isa sone kI cir3iyA meM bhautika hIre 0 aSTadazI / 1620

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javAharAta ke sAtha aurata bhI thii| usakI rakSA ke lie use alaga mahala meM rakhA gyaa| hijar3e surakSA adhikArI rakhe gye| yaha pUre prayAsa kiye gaye ki usakI sUrata videzI lUTere dekha na leN| puruSa samAja ne bhI isakI surakSA meM prANa gaMvAnA naitika dharma smjhaa| rAjapUta mahilAoM ko duzmanoM/luTeroM ke hAtha Ane ke bajAya 'jauhara' kA pATha par3hAyA gyaa| samajha meM nahIM AtA ki jauhara, harAkirI/AtmahatyA kI apekSA yaha zikSA kyoM nahIM dI gaI ki ve duzmana kA hathiyAroM se sAmane kare, vijayI hotI hai to lUTeroM se lUTA huA dhana bhI vApasa le sakatI hai, unheM gulAma banA sakatI hai, anyathA apanI asmitA kI rakSA karate hue yuddha ke daurAna maidAna meM Atmotsarga kara hI sakatI hai| ataeva niSpakSa dRSTi se dekheM to zrImatI pratibhA pATila kA kathana satya hai| ve jinheM musalamAna kaha rahI haiM, ve musalamAna nahIM lUTere aura DAkU the jo khaibara aura bolana ke darre se aate| dhana saMpatti lUTa kara U~Ta ghor3oM para lAdakara vApasa cale jAte the| yahA~ ke acche vidvAna, kArIgaroM ko bhI jabaradastI le jAte the| ataeva jo rAjA mahArAjA rAja kara rahe the, ve saba rAjapUta hI the unakA apanI rAniyoM ko mahaloM kI cAharadIvArI meM parde ke andara rakhanA jarurI thaa| zrImatI pATila ne jo bAta kahI usake anartha na kreN| isa pUre prasaMga ko yU dekheM ki eka tarapha DAkU/lUTere/lAlacI haiM, dUsarI tarapha bhautika saMpatti aura strI hai jo mAnava samAja meM saMpatti se bar3hakara sthAna rakhatI hai - use ve DAkU lUTere/lAlacI lUTanA cAha rahe haiN| rAje rajavAr3e ke jamAne meM kisI kI bhI bahU beTI khUbasUrata dikhAI dI to use ve bhI apane kAriMdoM ke mAdhyama se uThavA lete the| ataeva Ama AdamI bhI bahU beTI ko ghara ke aMdara rakhatA thA, bAhara jAne para parde meM jAnA par3atA thaa| 21vIM zatAbdI meM kAphI kucha parivartana huA hai aura 30 pratizata puruSa ke mukAbale A gaI hai| ber3iyoM se AjAdI 40-50 pratizata milI hai| abhI saMpUrNa AjAdI ke lie rAstA lambA hai| vaise svayaMvara yuga meM pardA prathA nahIM rahI hogii| maMdasaura (ma.pra.) 0 aSTadazI / 1630