Book Title: Dahej Samaj ka Abhishap
Author(s): Rupesh Sinh
Publisher: Z_Jain_Dharm_Vigyan_ki_Kasoti_par_002549.pdf
Catalog link: https://jainqq.org/explore/211158/1

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Page #1 -------------------------------------------------------------------------- ________________ rUpeza siMha daheja samAja kA abhizApa Aja samAja meM hara varga kA vyakti daheja ke bojha se dabA huA hai| samAja zikSita evaM sabhya hote hue sArI samasyAoM se avagata hote hue bhI daheja jaise roga ko bar3hAvA de rahA hai jo bar3e zarma kI bAta hai| isase bhI jyAdA zarma kI bAta to yaha hai ki bApa apane beTe kI kImata lekara use beca dete haiN| beTA eka ceka hai, beTA bApa ke hAtha kI kaThaputalI hai| jaba cAhA, jidhara cAhA beca diyA gayA phira ceka jamA karavA liyaa| jisa dina beTA isa bAta ko samajha jAyegA usa dina bApa kI jhUThI zAna aura ijjata miTTI meM mila jaayegii| eka bApa ko isa tathya se DaranA cAhie ki usake bhI beTI hai| hameM bhI apanI beTI ke lie eka yogya vara kA cunAva karanA hai| aura usake lie jindagI bhara kI kamAI pala bhara meM gaMvA denA hai| jo bApa jindagI bhara kI kamAI apane baccoM kI paravariza, par3hAI-likhAI para kharca kara detA hai, jisane apanI jindagI meM kabhI sukha aura ArAma kA muMha taka nahIM dekhA vaha vyakti socatA hai ki hamane apane baccoM kI jindagI banA dI takalIpha karake aura aba maiM ArAma kI mauta marUMgA, mere bacce sabhI sukhI haiN| lekina yaha socanA sarAsara mUrkhatA hai kyoMki Apake bacce sukhI nahIM raha skte| kyoMki Apake bacce kA bhI baccA hogA aura vaha bhI usI taraha se jindagI bhara kI kamAI ko daheja meM gaMvA degaa| agara samAja apane baccoM ko sukhI dekhanA cAhatA hai to daheja jaise sAmAjika roga kA ilAja karake khatma karanA hogaa| agara ve ise khatma na karake bar3hAvA dete haiM to ve samAja ke sabase bar3e duzmana haiN| daheja ko khatma karane ke lie yuvakoM aura yuvatiyoM donoM kA eka sAtha maMca para AnA jarUrI hai| eka bApa apane beTe kI kImata lagAkara use beca detA hai| lar3ake phira bhI zAna se sira uThAkara calate haiN| jabaki vaha eka bikA huA mAla hai| __ bApa beTe ko par3hAtA-likhAtA hai| bar3A karatA hai jaba usakI zAdI kA samaya AtA hai use paise ke sAmane choTA karake eka pati banane ke lie beca detA hai| jisa taraha gAya kA bachar3A jaba choTA hotA hai to kisAna use khilA-pilAkara bar3A karatA hai, bachar3A jaba kheta jotane lAyaka hotA hai to use acchI kImata para beca detA hai| samAja beTe aura bachar3e ko eka hI nigAha se dekhatA hai| jaba bachar3A bika jAtA hai to purAne mAlika kA koI adhikAra nahIM hotA hai| ThIka usI taraha jaba lar3akA bika jAtA hai, to bApa kA koI adhikAra nahIM raha jAtA hai| zarAphata to una lar3akiyoM kI mAniye jo apane lie kharIde gaye khilaune ko apane ghara meM na rakhakara khuda usa gulAma ke ghara jAkara usakI ijjata kI rakSA karatI haiN| ___ lar3akA jAnatA hai ki hamAre pitAjI gunahagAra haiM lekina bhAratIya saMskRti meM palA huA lar3akA bola nahIM pAtA hai| aba yaha jarUrI hai ki vaha apane pitA ke vicAroM kA virodha kre|ghr meM jaba lar3akA paidA hotA hai to bApa bahuta khuza najara AtA hai aura daivayoga se kahIM lar3akI paidA ho gaI to sAre kharca meM kaTautI kara usake daheja ke lie rakama jamA karane meM juTa jAtA hai| samAja lar3akiyoM ko nIcI dRSTi se dekhane lagatA hai| bhAratIya nArI AvArA nAlAyaka pati ko bhI satyavAna mAnakara use pUjatI hai| vaha daheja lobhI samAja ko bar3hAvA de rahI hai| agara vaha khuza rahanA cAhatI hai to khulakara kahe ki mujhe pati kI jarUrata hai jindagI ke lie kisI gulAmI ke lie nhiiN| jisa dina lar3akiyAM jAgarUka hokara daheja ke virodha meM sar3akoM para utareMgI usa samaya puruSa varga kA sira zarma se jhuka jaaegaa| ve apane vara kA cunAva apane tarIke se kareMgI tathA daheja lobhI ko tthukraayeNgii| daheja prathA ko khatma karane ke lie hara chAtra-chAtrA ko eka juTa hokara lar3anA hogaa| jaba taka chAtra-chAtrAeM daheja kA virodha nahIM kareMge taba vaha khatma nahIM hogaa| hIraka jayantI smArikA vidyArthI khaNDa / 14