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________________ -.-.-.-.-. -. -.-. -. -. -. -. -. -. -. -. -. -. -.-. -. -.. chAtroM meM saMskAra-nirmANa : ghara, samAja va zikSaka kI bhUmikA D zrI bhaMvaralAla AcchA pradhAnAdhyApaka, (zrI sumati zikSA sadana u0 mA0 vidyAlaya, rANAvAsa pAlI) Aja hamAre deza meM saMskAravAna zikSA kA nitAnta abhAva hai| sarakAra to isa ora ekadama nirapekSa banI huI hai, kintu samAja kI dRSTi bhI saveSTa nahIM hai| mAtA-pitA aura abhibhAvaka bhI apanI santAna ko eka saphala vyavasAyI apavA saphala cikitsaka, iMjIniyara, prophesara yA adhikArI to banAnA cAhate haiM lekina unameM samyak saMskAra udbhUta hoM, isa ora ve bahuta kama cintita rahate haiN| yahI kAraNa hai ki Aja deza meM caritra kA saMkaTa nirantara gaharAtA jA rahA hai| hAlata yaha ho gaI hai bhArata apanI vAstavika pahacAna khotA calA jA rahA hai aura yahA~ bhogavAdI saMskRti kramazaH phalatI-phUlatI jA rahI hai / aisI sthiti meM AvazyakatA isa bAta kI hai ki vAlakoM yA chAtroM meM acche saMskAroM kA nirmANa kaise ho? athavA hama unameM kisa prakAra ke saMskAra vikasita kareM ? kyA hama saMskAra-nirmANa ke nAma para tathAkathita dvaitaparaka sabhyatA ko to jIvita nahIM rakhanA cAhate jo dhArmika ArAdhanA gRha meM, sabhA va samArohoM meM to sadAcAra va naitikatA kA jayaghoSa karatI ho kintu jIvana ke karmakSetra meM chala-chadma evaM bhogavAdI sabhyatA kI poSaka ho / kathanI aura karanI kA yaha dvaita Aja hamAre deza meM nAsUra banakara sabhyatA ko lIla rahA hai| isa dvaitavAdI manovRtti se koI achUtA nahIM hai / vyakti, samAja aura rASTra saba meM yaha jahara banakara phailatI jA rahI hai| aba to hAlata yahA~ taka gambhIra hogaI hai ki dharma ke kSetra meM bhI saMskAroM kA sAnnidhya sandidha banatA calA jA rahA hai / vahA~ para bhI vyaktigata pratiSThA, sAmpradAyikatA aura guruDama kI bhAvanA balavatI hotI jA rahI hai| deza meM tathAkathita bhagavAnoM, yogiyoM aura maThAdhIzoM ne to isa hAlata ko aura adhika kaluSita kiyA hai / saMskArahIna rAjanetAoM ne deza meM bhraSTAcAra ko yatra-tatra prasArita kara diyA hai| hara koI rAtoM-rAta lakhapati banane ke cakkara meM hara taraha ke hathakaNDe apanA rahA hai| na to kahIM maryAdA hai aura na hI kahIM para saMyama / mAnavIya mUlya mAtra vANI kI zobhA raha gaye haiN| deza kramaza: dizAhIna ho rahA hai / sabhyatA digbhramita hai, insAna kiMkartavyavimUr3ha hai / isa dayanIya dazA kA ekamAtra sahArA saMskAravAna zikSA hai| zikSA ke mAdhyama se chAtroM meM jaba taka mAnavIya mUlyoM kI punaH sthApanA nahIM kareMge, rASTra ke prati prema ko protsAhana nahIM deMge, naitikatA, sadAcAra, sauhArdra aura saMkalpa kI saritA zikSAlayoM meM pravAhita nahIM kareMge tathA sAMskRtika punarutthAna ke prayAsa nahIM kareMge, taba taka mAnasika asantoSa, tanAva evaM pArasparika dUrI kAyama rhegii| isake liye chAtroM meM saMskAra-nirmANa saMjIvanI bUTI kI taraha haiN| lekina hameM isa bAta ko bahuta spaSTa kara lenA hogA ki saMskAra-nirmANa ke nAma para hama kyA kara lenA cAhate haiM / kyA hama eka saphala vyakti paidA karanA cAhate haiM athavA eka sadAcArI vyakti banAnA cAhate haiN| vartamAna sandarbho meM hara koI yahI kahegA ki eka saphala vyakti banAnA jyAdA zreyaskara hai, kintu Aja saphalatA kA mAnadaNDa hai chala-chadma, jhUTha-phareba, beImAnI, cApalUsI aura dgaabaajii| jo ina meM pAraMgata hai, vahI saphala vyakti bana sakatA hai| sadAcArI vyakti kabhI saphala vyakti nahIM bana sakatA hai| Aja jo sadAcArI hai, vaha nitAnta nirdhana, asahAya aura .. '
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________________ 62 karmayogI zrI kesarImalajI surANA abhinandana grantha : tRtIya khaNDa parezAna hai, samAja meM usakA koI sthAna nahIM hai / rAjanIti, vyApAra, prazAsana aura naukarI sabameM baha asaphala hotA hai / tathAkathita saphala vyakti aise sadAcArI vyakti ko apanI rAha se haTAne ke liye kyA-kyA nahIM karate haiN| hAlata yaha hai ki ImAnadAra loga jaba saMgharSa karate-karate thaka jAte haiM to anta meM AtmahatyA karane kI ora agrasara ho jAte haiN| hamAre deza kI Aja yaha jo sthiti bana gaI hai, usakA mUla kAraNa zikSA kA doSapUrNa honA hai| chAtra par3hanA nahIM cAhatA, vaha nakala karake pAsa honA apanA janmasiddha adhikAra mAnane lagatA hai, vaha hiMsA, tor3a-phor3a aura Andolana meM apanI zakti va sAmarthya ko bhunAtA calA jA rahA hai, vaha adhyApakoM ke sAtha baiThakara dhUmrapAna karatA hai, zarAba pItA hai aura anaitika AcaraNa meM vyasta rahatA hai| jisa deza meM zikSA kI yaha sthiti ho, usa deza meM saMskAravAna vyakti kaise paidA hoMge? jaba svayaM adhyApaka saMskArahIna hai to chAtra saMskAravAn hogA, isakI apekSA kaise kI jA sakatI hai ? prAya: yaha kahA jAtA hai ki bAlaka kA ghara usakI prathama pAThazAlA hai, kintu Aja mAtA-pitA apane kAmadhandhoM meM itane vyasta rahate haiM ki unake bacce kyA kara rahe haiM ? kahA~ rahate haiM ? kyA khAte haiM ? kyA bolate haiM ? unheM kucha bhI jJAta nahIM / mahAnagaroM kI sthiti to yaha hai ki mAtA-pitA jaba bacce so rahe hote haiM, taba kAma-dhandhoM para nikala jAte haiM aura dera rAta meM jaba baccaM so jAte haiM taba lauTate haiN| choTe zaharoM meM bhI yaha sthiti kramaza: bar3ha rahI hai| aisI hAlata meM bacce ghara ke naukara yA naukarAnI ke sAtha dina gujArate haiM, unakI taraha hI ve AcaraNa sIkhate haiM yA Ama-par3osa meM svacchanda rUpa se ghUmate rahate haiM / avakAza ke dina ve apane mAtA-pitA ke sAtha avazya rahate haiM, kintu pitA jaba dhUmrapAna karane vAlA ho aura vaha choTe baccoM ke sAmane dhar3alle se dhUmrapAna karatA ho to bacce para usakA kyA asara par3egA ? Telivijana para jaba choTe bacce apane mAtA-pitA ke sAtha baiThakara sinemA dekhate haiM, to unake komala mastiSka para sinemA ke kathAnaka ke anusAra kyA hAva-bhAva paidA hote haiM, kyA isakI kabhI kalpanA kI ? jisa ghara meM azlIla aura sastA sAhitya par3hA jAtA hai, satyakathAe~ va romAMcakArI patra-patrikAe~ par3hI jAtI haiM, usa ghara ke bacce kyA saMskAravAn baneMge ? pati-patnI ke riztoM meM TUTana ke dRzya jisa taraha Aye dina dekhane ko milate haiM, kyA ve kabhI baccoM ke mastiSka ko prabhAvita nahIM karate ? yahI hAla samAja kA hai / Aja samAja kA dAyarA TUTa rahA hai| kabhI mAnava sAmAjika prANI kahalAtA thA, kintu Aja mAnava para vyaktivAda tejI se hAvI ho rahA hai| samAja ke acche rIti-rivAja bhI rUr3higrasta rivAjoM ke sAtha samApta ho rahe haiN| sAmAjika aMkuza nAma kI aba koI vastu nhiiN| samAja se vidroha karake hara koI pragativAdI mukhauTA dhAraNa karanA cAhatA hai, kintu videzoM se AyAtita yaha pragatizIlatA bhAratIyatA ko hI samApta kara rahI hai| aisI hAlata meM nanhA bAlaka samAja se kaise saMskAra grahaNa karegA? ghara, samAja aura skUla ye tInoM sthAna bAlakoM ke andara acche saMskAra paidA karane ke liye uttaradAyI mAne jAte haiM, kintu AjAdI ke bAda ina tInoM kA svarUpa tejI se badalA hai| sava saphala vyakti to bananA cAhate haiM kintu saMskAravAn yA sadAcArI vyakti koI nahIM bananA caahtaa| Aja jIvana kA ekamAtra saMskAra roTI ho gayA hai| roTI prApta karane ke lie dina-pratidina jisa taraha pApar3a belane par3ate haiM, usameM vaha saba kucha bhUla jAtA hai| apane-parAye kA bheda samApta ho jAtA hai, mAtra roTI usakA ekamAtra Adarza raha jAtA hai| bAlaMkoM meM saMskAra paidA karane ke liye skUloM meM naitika zikSA dene kI bAta kI jAtI hai| aisI bAteM varSoM se suna rahe haiM, kintu sarakAra apanI kursI ke cakkara meM kucha bhI nahIM kara pAtI / deza meM kucha aisI zikSaNa saMsthAe~ avazya haiM, jinameM bAlakoM meM saMskAra paidA karane ke bharasaka prayAsa kiye jAte haiN| rANAvAsa sthita zrI jaina zvetAmbara terApaMthI mAnava hitakArI saMgha dvArA saMcAlita vibhinna zikSaNa saMsthAe~ isI zreNI meM AtI haiM, jo mAnava mAtra kI vizuddha sevA ke lie kaTibaddha haiM kintu aisI do-cAra saMsthAe~ sampUrNa deza kA kAyAkalpa kaise kara sakatI haiN| IsAI mizanariyoM dvArA saMcAlita skUloM kI prAya: prazaMsA kI jAtI hai kintu eka to aise skUloM se garIba kA sambandha hI nahIM hai, phira inakI phIsa bahuta U~cI rahatI hai aura vahA~ kitAbI zikSA to acchI mila sakatI hai kintu saMskAra ke nAma para vahA~ se nikalane vAle chAtra nagaNya haiN| sAmpradAyikatA kI Ar3a lekara bhI kucha saMsthAe~ cala rahI haiM, kintu unakA uddezya chAtroM meM saMskAra paidA karanA utanA nahIM hai, jitanA apane
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________________ chAtroM meM saMskAra-nirmANa : ghara, samAja va zikSaka kI bhUmikA 63 . ...................................................... .... sampradAya ke hitoM kI rakSA karanA hai| AryasamAja dvArA gurukula paddhati se calane vAle vidyAlaya AzA kI kiraNa ke rUpa meM avazya prasphuTita hote haiM, kintu inakI apanI sImAe~ haiM, phira sarakAra kI ora se protsAhana dene kI koI vyavasthA nahIM hai / aisI sthiti meM bAlakoM meM saMskAra paidA karane ke lie phira vahI tIna sAdhana raha jAte haiM---.ghara, samAja aura vidyAlaya / ina tInoM ke saMyukta prayAsa ke dvArA hI saMskAravAna aura saccaritra bAlaka taiyAra kiye jA sakate haiN| isa taraha taiyAra hue bAlaka hI eka samRddha, khuzahAla aura zAntimaya bhArata kA nirmANa kara sakate haiM, lekina isake sAtha hI agalA prazna paidA hotA hai ki ye tInoM bAlakoM meM saMskAroM kA sarjana kaise kareM, isake liye nimna sujhAva upayogI ho sakate haiM mAtA-pitA kA dAyitva ghara se hI bAlakoM meM acche saMskAra paidA karane ke lie mAtA-pitA va abhibhAvakoM ko cAhie ki ve pahale svayaM apane jIvana ko susaMskArI banAe, sadAcArI evaM prAmANika banAe~ tAki unake jIvana kA prabhAva baccoM ke mana aura mastiSka para par3a sake / mAtA-pitA yA abhibhAvakoM ko cAhiye ki unakA galaka dina bhara kisa prakAra ke bAlakoM ke sAtha rahatA hai ? isake mitra kauna hai ? unakA stara kaisA hai ? unameM saMskAra kaise haiM aura unake mAtA-pitA kI kyA sthiti hai, isa prakAra kA dhyAna rakhakara hI bAlakoM ko apane mitra banAne meM sahayoga deM / galata mitroM ko hatotsAhita karanA caahiye| kyoMki galata mitra bAlakoM kA bar3A ahita kara baiThate haiN| bAlaka jaba skUla meM jAne lAyaka ho jAya taba vidyAlaya ke cayana kA bhI pUrA dhyAna rakhanA cAhiye ki vidyAlaya meM adhyApaka kaise haiM? parIkSA pariNAma kaisA rahatA hai ? aura usa vidyAlaya se nikale hue chAtroM kA bhaviSya kaisA hai ? isa taraha kA dhyAna rakhakara hI vidyAlaya kA cayana karanA cAhiye / mAtA-pitA ko yaha bhI dhyAna rakhanA cAhiye ki unake bAlaka naukaroM ke bharose nahIM rahe, agara rakhanA majabUrI bana jAtI hai to naukaroM kA cayana upayukta ho tathA samaya-samaya para unakI gatividhiyoM * va melajola ke bAre meM bhI dhyAna rakhanA caahiye| ghara para jaba bAlakoM kA phAlatU samaya ho, usa samaya unheM mahApuruSoM kI jIvaniyAM par3hane ko denI cAhiye, satsAhitya lAkara denA cAhiye, dhArmika va AdhyAtmika rujhAna paidA karanA cAhiye / chAtra azlIla sAhitya na par3eM, unameM sinemA kI lata na par3e isa ora bhI dhyAna rakhanA cAhiye / agara aisI sthiti paidA ho jAya ki bAlaka ko parivAra se dUra kisI chAtrAvAsa meM hI rakhanA hai to unheM acche chAtrAvAsoM kA cayana karanA caahiye| samAja kA sAnnidhya koI bhI vyakti samAja se kaTakara adhika samaya taka jiMdA nahIM raha sktaa| samAja hI vyakti kA jIvita pariveza hai / isalie samAja kA sAnnidhya bhI bAlakoM ko barAbara milatA rahe aura hara bAlaka apane samAja kA smaraNa kara gauravAnvita ho, isa prakAra kI sthiti Avazyaka hai| ata: samAja ko cAhiye ki vaha pratibhAvAna, sadAcArI, paropakArI bAlakoM kA sammAna kare, unheM pramANa-patra dekara protsAhita kre| samAja prAcIna gurukula paddhati ke vidyAlaya evaM Azrama khole tathA vahA~ saMskArita vAtAvaraNa banAye / samAja kabhI bhI bhraSTa, durAcArI, taskara, jamAkhora, milAvaTa karane vAle vyaktiyoM ko protsAhita nahIM de, AvazyakatA par3ane para aise logoM kI bhartsanA kareM / samAja apane andara vyApta kurItiyoM ko samApta kre| vyabhicAra, vezyAvRtti, mAdaka dravyoM kA sevana, juA, mAMsa, zikAra Adi ko hatotsAhita kare, aisI bAtoM meM lipta logoM ke prati ghRNA ke bhAva jagAe aura unheM bhI sahI rAste para lAne kA prayAsa kre| __zikSaka kI bhUmikA mAtA-pitA va samAja ke bAda bAlakoM meM acche saMskAra paidA karane ke liye zikSaka kI bhUmikA bar3o mahattvapUrNa hotI hai kyoMki vidyAlaya meM zikSaka hI chAtra kA abhibhAvaka va draSTA hotA hai / isake lie yaha Avazyaka hai. ki sabase pahale zikSaka apane jIvana ko saMskAravAna, saccaritra aura sadAcArI banAe / vaha vyasanamukta ho, preraNAdAyI ho tathA khulI kitAba ke rUpa meM ho tAki apane guru ko dekhakara chAtra ke dila meM usake prati sneha, zraddhA va Adara
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________________ 64 karmayogI zrI kesarImalajI surANA abhinandana grantha : tRtIya khaNDa DIG I . ... . .............. ..................... .................... ke bhAva jAgeM / zikSaka ko cAhiye ki vaha pratyeka chAtra se apanA nikaTa kA samparka rakhe, chAtra kI dainika gatividhi para apanI najara rakhe aura AvazyakatA par3ane para chAtra ko yathAsandarbha saMketa bhI vAre / chAtroM meM vinaya va Adara kI bhAvanA jAgrata ho, tatsambandhI prayAsa bhI kare, unheM mahApuruSoM kI jIvaniyoM se avagata karAye, naitikatA kA pATha par3hAye, sAMskRtika va sAhityika kAryakramoM va pratiyogitAoM dvArA chAtroM ko protsAhita kare, sammAnita va puraskRta kare, rASTra ke ke prati premabhAva jAgrata kare / AdhyAtmika guruoM ko cAhiye ki ve saba dharmoM ke prati samatA kA bhAva paidA kareM, sAmpradAyikatA se dUra rakheM tathA ahiMsaka bhAva jAgrata kreN| vidyAlayI aura AdhyAtmika guruoM kA yaha bhI dAyitva hai ki ve vyaktigata pratiSThA, pUjA Adi se chAtroM ko dUra rakheM tathA apane gharelU kAryoM ko chAtroM se nahIM kraayeN| chAtroM ke viSaya-cayana meM madada kareM tathA unakI ruci kA dhyAna rakhakara unake abhibhAvakoM ko sUcita kreN| isa prakAra chAtroM yA bAlakoM meM acche saMskAra paidA karane ke liye mAtA-pitA, samAja aura zikSaka tInoM kA apanA-apanA yogadAna rahatA hai / AvazyakatA isa bAta kI hai ki ina tInoM meM samanvaya paidA ho, tabhI saMskAravAna bAlaka rASTra ko eka navIna dizA de sakate haiN| rASTra ke sthAyitva va ekatA ke liye yaha nitAnta Avazyaka bhI hai| apucchio na bhAsijjA bhAsamANassa aMtarA / piTThimaMsaM na khAijjA mAyAmosaM vivajjae / -dazavakAlika 87 binA pUche nahIM bole, bIca meM na bole, kisI kI cugalI na khAve aura kapaTa karake jhUTha na bole /