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________________ 13 | Aja kI eka mahatI apekSA : parivAra niyojana Aja prAyaH samagra jJAta vizva nirantara bar3hatI jA rahI janasaMkhyA se trasta hai| paurANika kathAzruti ke anusAra draupadI ke cIra kI bhAMti janasaMkhyA simaTane meM hI nahIM A rahI hai| eka yuga thA kabhI, jabaki zata putravatI hone kA eka AzIrvAda thaa| aba to yaha abhizApa bana kara raha gyaa| hara parivAra, samAja evaM rASTra ke pAsa upabhoga ke sAdhana sImita haiN| anna, vastra, bhavana Adi kitane hI nirmita hote jAe~, yadi upabhoktAoM kI saMkhyA adhikAdhika bar3hatI jAe, aura vaha bar3ha hI rahI hai, to samasyA kA samAdha na kaise hogA? prakRti kA utpAdana bhaNDAra ananta nahIM hai, Akhira usake zoSaNa kI bhI eka sImA hai| yahI kAraNa hai ki manuSya ke mana kI icchAoM kI icchAnurUpa pUrti nahIM ho pA rahI hai| bhautika dRSTi kI pradhAnatA se icchAe~ bhI mAnavIya AvazyakatAoM kI rekhA ko pAra kara bAr3ha ke kAraNa tUphAnI nadiyoM kI bhA~ti maryAdAhIna anargala gati se idhara-udhara phailatI jA rahI haiN| rAjanItika mahattvAkAMkSAoM ne mAnava mana ko saba-kucha Avazyaka-anAvazyaka pAne ke lie pAgala banA diyA hai| saMyama jaisI koI bAta nahIM hai| Akhira saMyama kI bhI eka sImA hai| bhUkha se bar3hakara koI vedanA nahIM hai| eka prAcIna maharSi ne, jo svayaM ke zikhara para ArUr3ha the, khule mana se yathArtha kathana kiyA hai-'khuhAsamA veyaNA natthi' saMskRta bhASA meM bhI eka ukti hai-'bubhukSitaH kiM na karoti pApam'-bhUkhA AdamI kauna-sA pApa nahIM karatA? vaha sabhI pApAcAra, durAcAra, atyAcAra, anAcAra kara sakatA hai| use yogyAyogya kA viveka nahIM rhtaa| janasaMkhyA bar3hatI hai, to bhUkhoM kI saMkhyA bar3hegI hii| sabhI ko icchAnurUpa to kyA jIvanarakSAnurUpa bhojana bhI milanA kaThina ho jAtA hai| aura, usakA jo pariNAma hotA hai, vaha hamAre sAmane hai| akhabAroM meM subaha-subaha kyA par3hate haiM? ___174- prajJA se dharma kI samIkSA - dvitIya puSpa
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________________ - yahI corI, DakaitI, baTamArI, jebakaTI, chInA-jhapaTI aadi-aadi| isake sAtha hI hatyA, khuunkhraabii| sAdhAraNa se do-cAra paisoM ke lie mArA mArI / yaha mArAmArI anyatra hI nahIM, parivAra meM bhI ho calI hai| apane hI rakta se janmI saMtAneM mAtA-pitA taka kI hatyAe~ kara detI haiM, yaha khabara Ama ho gaI hai| deza meM hara tarapha guNDA-tattva bar3hatA jA rahA hai, manuSya apanI pavitra mAnavatA kI tilAMjali dekara krUra dAnava banatA jA rahA hai| dharma paramparAoM ne kAphI samaya taka pApa aura puNya, naraka aura svarga Adi ke upadezoM se manuSya ko niyaMtrita rakhA hai| mara bhale hI jAe~, kintu anyAya kA eka dAnA bhI khAnA harAma hai, pApa hai / parantu Aja ye upadeza kucha apavAdoM ko chor3akara apanI guNavattA evaM arthavattA kI pakar3a kho cuke haiN| ve svayaM bhI mAyA - jAla meM pha~sa gae haiN| dharmaguru, dharmaguru nahIM, arthaguru hote jA rahe haiN| ataH spaSTa hai, saMyama kI lagAma, manuSya ke bubhukSita pAgala mana azva ko kaise laga sakatI hai| mAnA ki kucha adhika bhogAsakti bhI ina anAcAroM kI jananI hai / parantu yaha bAta nahIM bhUlanI cAhie ki pahale manuSya bahuta adhika apekSita AvazyakatA kI pUrti hetu kucha choTI-moTI galatiyA~ karatA hai / phira dhIre-dhIre ve galatiyA~ jar3a pakar3a letI haiM, manuSya ke antarviveka ko samApta kara detI haiM, phalataH manuSya saMvedanazIlatA se zUnya hokara kucha kA kucha ho jAtA hai| aura yaha saba hotA hai- aniyaMtrita bhIr3a ke kaarnn| ThIka hI lokokti hai 'jo bhIr3a meM jAe, vaha bhAr3a meM jaae|' vastutaH yuga kI janasaMkhyA kI bar3hatI bhIr3a-bhAr3a hI ho gaI hai| bhAr3a yAni jalabhunane ke lie dahakatI Aga / manuSya Akhira manuSya hai| vaha kITANu to nahIM hai| jo idhara-udhara dha -cATakara, gandagI khAkara apanI choTI-sI jindagI pUrI kara legA, aura mara jAyegA, yA mAra diyA jaaegaa| adhika saMkhyA meM bar3hate kITANuoM ke saMhAra kI bhI Aye dina sarakArI aura gaira sarakArI yojanAe~ bana rahI haiM, adhikatA to kITANuoM kI bhI apekSita nahIM hai / isI taraha manuSya kI janasaMkhyA kI anargala vRddhi se jo eka taraha kITANu hI hotA jA rahA hai, vaha viSAkta kITANu / Aja kA manuSya aneka samasyAoM se ghirA huA hai| pralobhanoM kA zikAra ho rahA hai| aura, isa taraha niraparAdha apanI hI jAti ke, apane hI niraparAdha mAnava bhAI kI Aja kI eka mahatI apekSA : parivAra niyojana 175
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________________ hatyA kara detA hai| apekSA hai, yadi isa aparAdhavRtti ko rokanA hai, to janasaMkhyA kI vRddhi ko sarvaprathama rokanA hai| anyathA, saba dharma, karma, sarakAra aura unake kAnUna dhare-ke-dhare raha jaaeNge| parivAra meM eka dina atIta meM devI kahI jAne vAlI nArI mAtra bhogya vastu bana gaI hai aura bana gaI hai-anargala bacce paidA karane kI jIvita mshiin| vaha devItva kA apanA gaurava kho cukI hai| adhika baccoM ke kAraNa usane apanA dehika svAsthya aura sauMdarya to khoyA hI hai| mana kA svAsthya aura saundarya bhI kho cukI hai, khotI jA rahI hai| jainAgama jJAtAsUtra kI 'bahuputtiyA' kathA-nArI ke samAna adhika baccoM ke kAraNa khuda gandI rahatI hai, ghara gandA rahatA hai, mohalle aura mohalloM kI galiyAM gaMdI rahatI hai| sAdhAraNa parivAroM meM, jinakI hI saMkhyA adhika hai, baccoM ko na samaya para pauSTika bhojana milatA hai, na bImArI hone para ThIka taraha cikitsA ho pAtI hai| sarakArI riporTa hai, akele bhArata meM 'e' viTAmina se sambandhita bhojana ke abhAva meM pA~ca lAkha ke lagabhaga bacce hara varSa aMdhe ho jAte haiN| jyoM-tyoM karake kucha bar3e hue ki idhara-udhara gharelU kAryoM aura hoTaloM meM naukarI ke nAma para majadUra bana jAte haiN| ye bAla majadUra, kAnUnI aparAdha hote hue bhI lAkhoM kI saMkhyA meM berahamI ke sAtha dina-rAta zrama kI cakkI meM pisate jA rahe haiM, aura samaya se pahale dama tor3a dete haiM aura kucha unameM se ghRNita aparAdha karmI bana jAte haiN| maiMne dekhA hai, tIrtha-sthAnoM meM nanhe-nanhe bacce bhikhArI bane haiM aura canda paisoM ke lie gir3agir3Ate hue yAtriyoM ke pIche-pIche dUra taka daur3ate rahate haiN| ye phaTehAla bacce, bacce kyA, jIvita nara-kaMkAla hI najara Ate haiN| dayA AtI hai| isa dayA ne kucha kAma bhI kiyA hai| para... para Akhira dayA kI eka sImA hai vyakti kI paristhiti meN| aura, aba to yaha dayA kI dhArA bhI sUkhatI jA rahI hai| jaba bharaNa-poSaNa hI ThIka nahIM hai, to zikSA-dIkSA to eka svapna hai| kahA~ par3heM, peTa kI par3hAI pUrI ho, to Age kucha aura ho| kitanI hI bAra bhIkha mAMgate baccoM se pUchA hai-tuma kisI skUla meM par3hate kyoM nahIM? uttara milA hai-bAbA, kyA par3heM? hameM par3hAI nahIM, khAnA cAhie khAnA ! isakA samAdhAna hai kucha? itane adhika skUla, kaoNleja aura vizvavidyAlayoM ke hote hue bhI anakSara, anapar3ha, ___ 176 prajJA se dharma kI samIkSA - dvitIya puSpa
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________________ azikSitoM kI saMkhyA kama hone ke bajAya, prativarSa bar3hatI hI jA rahI hai| isa bar3hatI kA mUla hai, janasaMkhyA kI vRddhi meN| abhI-abhI samAcAra patroM meM suprasiddha samAja zAstriyoM kI eka riporTa paDhane ko milI hai| agale sau varSoM ke AsapAsa vizva kI janasaMkhyA daza kharaba ho jaaegii| kyA hogA taba? bhUmi to bar3hane se rahIM kahA~ aura kaise raheMge itane loga? kyA cUhoM kI taraha dharatI ke nIce biloM meM raheMge? aura, khAeMge kyA? kyA AdamI, AdamI ko khAne ke lie majabUra ho jaaegaa| majaburI bUrI hai, vaha saba karA sakatI hai| use artha yA anartha kA, bhale yA bure kA kucha atA-patA nahIM hai| ataH samaya rahate sAvadhAna hone kI apekSA hai, mAnava jAti ke hita-cintakoM ko| kucha adhika sAtvika kahe jAne vAle loga yA dharma, kahate haiM bar3hatI jana-saMkhyA ko brahmacarya ke dvArA niyaMtraNa karanA hI ThIka hai, anya sAdhanoM se nhiiN| bAta apane meM ThIka hai| parantu hajAroM varSoM se dharma paraMparAe~ brahmacarya kA, indriya saMyama kA upadeza dete A rahe hai| parantu zUnya hI pariNAma AyA hai isa upadeza kA pratyakSa hamAre sAmane hai| agara isakI kucha prabhAvakatA hotI, to kyA isa taraha janasaMkhyA bar3hatI? dharmaguru eka ora to manuSya kI kAmukatA ko pratibandhi ta karane kA upadeza dete rahe, kintu dUsarI ora kyA kahate rahe yaha bhI patA hai Apako? rAjA, mahArAjA, zreSThIjanoM ke pUrvajanma ke puNya kI mahimA ke guNagAna meM unake saikar3oM hajAroM patniyA~ bhI batAte rhe| jisake pAsa jitanI adhika patniyA~ vaha utanA hI adhika puNyavAna ! yaha dumuhI bAteM kyA artha rakhatI haiN| manuSya kI kAmavRtti brahmacarya meM na jAkara, isake virodhI kAmapipAsAvardhaka varNanoM kI ora hI agrasara hotI rhii| acchA hai brahmacarya se, indriya saMyama se dharma ke sAtha jana-saMkhyA vRddhi kI samasyA bhI hala ho jaae| 'Ama ke Ama guThalI ke daam|' koI Apatti nahIM hai| parantu, sarvasAdhAraNa se apekSA rakhanA, eka taraha kA divA-svapna hI hai| ataH parivAra niyojana ke anya sAdhanoM kA viveka pUrvaka ucita sImA meM prayoga ho, to koI Apatti nhiiN| bahu-vivAha kI prathA kahIM bhI, kisI bhI dharma yA jAti meM ho, vaha baMda honI hI cAhie, dharma vizeSa yA jAti vizeSa ke nAma isa taraha kI chUTa rahanA, rASTra ko barbAda karanA hai| Aja kI eka mahatI apekSA : parivAra niyojana 177
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________________ garbhapAta jaise kRtya to bhayAvaha haiN| ve pApa to haiM, sAtha hI nArI jIvana ke sAtha khilavAr3a bhI haiN| isa taraha aneka apane prANa de baiThatI haiN| garbhapAta kI apekSA garbhanirodha hI ThIka hai| na rahegA bAMsa, na bajegI baaNsurii| hara karma meM lAbha-hAni kA dhyAna rakhanA Avazyaka hai| garbhanirodha kI prakriyA meM bhI saMbhavataH kucha galata pariNAma A sakate haiN| parantu, ina kucha galatiyoM kI kalpanA meM sarvanAza ko nimaMtraNa nahIM diyA jA sktaa| prAkRtika cikitsA acchI hai, parantu jaba vaha kAragara na ho, to anya cikitsA paddhatiyA~ bhI apanAI jA sakatI haiN| maiMne acche-acche prAkRtika cikitsakoM, yogiyoM, adhyAtmavAdiyoM aura AMgla cikitsA paddhati ke kaTTara virodhI dharma guruoM ko bar3e-bar3e haoNspITaloM meM bharatI hote aura anApa-zanApa aMgrejI elopaithika abhakSya davAiyA~ khAte dekhA hai| yahI bAta antataH parivAra niyojana kI prakriyA meM hai| samAja kalyANa ke lie, rASTra-hita meM samayocita kadama uThAnA pApa nahIM hai| pApa hai, samayocita kadama na utthaanaa| Apa bhalA mAne yA burA mAneM, mujhe galata samajhe yA sahI, mere antarmana ko jo sahI lagA hai, vaha ni:saMkoca maiMne likhA hai| Aja koI bhI ho, yadi pUrvAgraha evaM vyartha doSAropaNa kI vRtti se mukta hokara soceMge, samajheMge, vicAra kareMge, to mujhe pUrNa nahIM, to kucha to sahI pAe~ge hI ! basa, itanI-sI bAta mere lie paryApta hai-zeSa Ananda-maMgala ! 178. prajJA se dharma kI samIkSA - dvitIya puSpa